(note: if your husband sits around in his boxers all day in your house, don’t use him as an example. This way your toddler begins to understand how grown-ups wear appropriate clothes every day. What is the best way to teach your kids how to have that sense of urgency in the morning to get dressed by themselves? I'm exhausted trying to hold you down for a diaper, a tshirt, some shorts. “If you get irritated by your child’s behaviour, you’ll exacerbate it,” she warns. For the last 6 months or so, getting him dressed to go out in the mornings is becoming a real battle and leaves both of us in tears. The kind of pushback a 2-year-old gives you — “I won’t get dressed, I won’t eat that, I won’t walk to the car” — serves the developmental purpose of helping her become her own person. What should I do? Q: My 2 1/2-year-old daughter has been fighting with both my husband and me about getting dressed or putting her coat on. In this case, skip getting dressed until after breakfast. It is also normal for your toddler to refuse to get dressed and to take the clothes off immediately after you have pinned them down on the floor to dress them. Yes, it is normal for your toddler to hate wearing clothes. According the psychologist, Dr. Jim Taylor, “it’s not uncommon for toddlers and preschoolers to use clothing as their first declaration of independence and first assertion of their own unique personalities.” Both of my girls stopped letting me dress them at 2.5-3. He's now two years and three months. My Toddler Refuses to Get Dressed Oh Whoop Whoop. Deal with basic needs first: If your child barely touched their food last night, maybe they’re super hungry this morning. lol) Getting dressed tantrums are the worst. Make getting dressed fun. The kind of pushback a 2-year-old gives you - "I won't get dressed, I won't eat that, I won't walk to the car" - serves the developmental purpose of helping her become her own person. I'm tired of you telling me that you'll stand up to get dressed only to have you dash off again. I’ve got princesses in the making, so I also give 2-3 dress options to my 3yo, or she points out a dress herself. You’re not always going to figure out a tantrum but just take a moment to think if there’s something obvious. 1. Before you beat yourself up, know that your child’s tantrums getting dressed are completely normal. As any parent of a toddler… He just hates getting dressed… Whether you’re dealing with a typically headstrong preschooler or a child with SPI, it doesn’t mean you’re sentenced to endless morning tantrums. You are such a workout, my strong little boy. How to deal with toddler tantrums getting dressed. Have fun while getting dressed, and stress the importance of where and when it is okay to take off your clothes. This has been happening since he was 10 months old so it's not a new thing. 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